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Tripping Down Memory Lane

Tripping Down Memory Lane

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As I prepared to speak at my childhood church recently, I recalled some vivid memories and stories about the people and events connected to that place.

Memory. I’ll never forget one of the first time I served in the fellowship hall of that church as an adult. I had helped serve the noon meal after a morning revival service. We were all seated in a semi-circle, with the evangelist and the church staff at the head table.

Since I was the youngest member of the ladies group helping that day, someone asked me to fetch some more rolls for everyone. I remember the embarrassment I felt as I got up from my seat in front of everyone and walked to the kitchen in my church clothes, probably a dress and heels.

Then, my absolute worst fear happened. As I walked out of kitchen with a big plate of rolls, I tripped and fell down, tossing the rolls into into air.

I can still hear the gasps of the crowd there and feel the emotions of the shame and embarrassment that washed over me.

Needless to say, I did not want to look up at the crowd after my fall. I knew everyone in the room was staring at me, and I did not even want to imagine how I must have looked to them. But I swallowed my pride, picked myself up off the floor, and asked, “Does anyone want a roll now?”

Several years later, after we moved to Arkansas, I visited a restaurant in Branson who advertised their “throwed rolls.” And I wondered if they knew who really invented that idea.

Reality Check. As I prepared to speak at my home church, I did have a bit of reality check. I imagined the possibility of making a total fool of myself here again.

Did I really want to encourage my old friends and family to tell the stories that matter most? What if I reminded them of some stories that I’d rather forget? 

Survival. I did survive speaking in that same fellowship hall to the ladies at First Baptist Church, Silsbee, Texas. I didn’t trip and fall again, although I did lose an earring before I spoke. So, I had to change earrings, and wear a pair that did not match my necklace. But I survived without totally humiliating myself too much.

I also visited with many old friends and family members, and we shared some of memorable stories.

DSC_0024Thank you, Lori Moody, for your invitation to encourage the ladies at Silsbee FBC to tell the stories that matter most.

What stories comes to mind as you think about your childhood? 

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Enough Grace for the New Year

Enough Grace for the New Year

Photo/TaraRossAs I considered a few changes for the new year, I chose the word—ENOUGH—as my one word to help me get back on track in 2014.

It may be more accurate to say that this one word—ENOUGH—chose me. It just rolled out of my restless heart and consumed my anxious thoughts awhile back.

Why enough? This New Year found me bouncing off my office walls again.

Where do I begin? Do I work on one of those book proposals? Do I need to write another blog post? Do I have a speaking event scheduled this month? Do I need to work on my new website, so I can get that up and going? I don’t know where to start! Enough! (more…)

Thanksgiving and Food

Thanksgiving and Food

DSCN2436 - Version 2“If you decide for God, living a life of God-worship, it follows that you don’t fuss about what’s on the table at mealtimes . . . ” (Matthew 6:25 MSG).

Food, food, food! Why does everyone make such a big fuss about food during the holidays? I’m always focused on food! Either I’m overeating, dieting, or trying to feed someone else. I can’t remember one day of my life that I didn’t focus on food at some point.

So, how can my worries about food help my spiritual focus? Over the years, I’ve discovered that my hyper-focus on food is often a warning sign for a much deeper problem than just trying to meet my physical needs.

Needs. While we were seminary students, I first learned how my own worry about food could actually motivate me to seek some deeper spiritual insights into my problem.

As seminary students, we lived on a much lower income than most of our family and friends at that time. Sometimes we didn’t even have enough money for the food that we needed for our family.

Miracles. God used that problem to capture my attention, as I saw Him provide in miraculous ways for some of my friends. Groceries would be left on their doorsteps. Money for food would arrive in the mail. Or they would discover some random source of free food, like day-old bread or vegetables available from the grocery’s produce department.

Tips. Intrigued by my friends’ stories, I began to ask to God for help me find ways to deal with our food crises. And I discovered many tips for stretching my food budget with recipe ideas and coupons. My friends and I found that we could all stretch our food budgets by sharing our resources. When we gathered together for a meal, each family would bring their menu contributions.

Manna and quail. In Exodus 16:4, “God said to Moses, ‘I’m going to rain bread down from the skies for you. The people will go out and gather each day’s ration. I’m going to test them to see if they’ll live according to my Teaching or not’” (NLT).

I joked at times about identifying with the Israelites in the wilderness as God provided manna and quail for them to eat. But as I experienced God’s providing for my own family, like He did for His children in the Old Testament, I searched for more answers to my everyday problems in the Bible.

Traditions. Before my seminary days, I never thought about asking God to provide for my family’s needs, especially our food. Yes, we taught our children to express their thanks before our meals. But my prayer of thanks usually came after I had purchased groceries and prepared our meals.

So, I examined our mealtime prayers and Thanksgiving blessings. Could they simply be a family or religious tradition? Had I ever offered my mealtime prayers with a heartfelt gratitude for God’s blessings?

Diets. I still struggle with worry and my spiritual focus in the area of food from time to time. Even now, as I try to eat a healthier diet, I realize that I must stop and ask God for direction every day–sometimes moment-by-moment–as I seek answers to my problems and needs in this area of my life.

So, as I prepare to enter into this season of Thanksgiving once again, I pray that I will remember this promise from God’s Word.

“… The Lord is near. Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus” (Phil. 4:5-7 NIV).<

Facing our Personal Insecurities and Limitations

Facing our Personal Insecurities and Limitations

DSC_0430 - Version 2I don’t have what it takes!

I must confess, that excuse crossed my mind many times as I consider writing for publication, teaching writing, and (now) speaking to Christian women?

What can I do to overcome my insecurities?

Read about how I faced my personal insecurities in my post today in A Common Bond

[Click here to read my post on a Common Bond.]

How do you overcome your personal insecurities and limitation? Leave your comments below. I’d love to hear your story!

Fear of rejection and failure?

Fear of rejection and failure?

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“Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up” (Thomas A. Edison).

Do you see rejection as failure? Failure often points us toward changes in our direction and priorities.

C. S. Lewis explained, “Failures are finger posts on the road to achievement.”

Finding the courage to risk failure requires us to be vulnerable.

Recently, I shared some of my thoughts on failure and vulnerability on the WordServe Water Cooler.

Click here to read my post on the WordServe Water Cooler.

What lessons have you learned about failure and vulnerability? Leave your comments below. I’d love to hear from you!

Video/TED (Brené Brown: “The Power of Vulnerability”)
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