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Memories of Mom on Thanksgiving

Memories of Mom on Thanksgiving

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Why do some seasons remind us of stories about the people in our lives? On Thanksgiving, I can’t help but think of my mother.

Not many holidays go by without fond memories of my mother. Sometimes those thoughts come like a gentle wind, and other times they still surprise me like a Texas thunderstorm.

Very few holidays passed in my life without mother being involved in some way. And even though we lived hundreds of miles away from her for over two decades, she was always intimately involved in my family’s life until her untimely death a few years ago.

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Connection. Mother kept our extended family connected when we moved away from our hometown. Even when we were annoyed by her pressure to share holidays, she remained a unifying force in our family. She kept us up-to-date with family news, and I miss that connection now.

Since Mother’s death, I do not take the time to regularly visit my extended family. But we still stay in touch by phone, e-mail, and Internet social networks now. I think Mother would be pleased with our “Facebooks”!

Roots. Memories of Mother continue to connect us all to our Texas roots and family.

After Thanksgiving, I’m traveling back to my hometown. I’ve been invited to speak at an event for the women of the church that I attended as a child. I hope to visit some old friends and family there.

And I’m sure we’ll tell some of the stories that matter most.

Who tells the stories in your family? Will you see your family storyteller during the holidays? 

Thanksgiving and Food

Thanksgiving and Food

DSCN2436 - Version 2“If you decide for God, living a life of God-worship, it follows that you don’t fuss about what’s on the table at mealtimes . . . ” (Matthew 6:25 MSG).

Food, food, food! Why does everyone make such a big fuss about food during the holidays? I’m always focused on food! Either I’m overeating, dieting, or trying to feed someone else. I can’t remember one day of my life that I didn’t focus on food at some point.

So, how can my worries about food help my spiritual focus? Over the years, I’ve discovered that my hyper-focus on food is often a warning sign for a much deeper problem than just trying to meet my physical needs.

Needs. While we were seminary students, I first learned how my own worry about food could actually motivate me to seek some deeper spiritual insights into my problem.

As seminary students, we lived on a much lower income than most of our family and friends at that time. Sometimes we didn’t even have enough money for the food that we needed for our family.

Miracles. God used that problem to capture my attention, as I saw Him provide in miraculous ways for some of my friends. Groceries would be left on their doorsteps. Money for food would arrive in the mail. Or they would discover some random source of free food, like day-old bread or vegetables available from the grocery’s produce department.

Tips. Intrigued by my friends’ stories, I began to ask to God for help me find ways to deal with our food crises. And I discovered many tips for stretching my food budget with recipe ideas and coupons. My friends and I found that we could all stretch our food budgets by sharing our resources. When we gathered together for a meal, each family would bring their menu contributions.

Manna and quail. In Exodus 16:4, “God said to Moses, ‘I’m going to rain bread down from the skies for you. The people will go out and gather each day’s ration. I’m going to test them to see if they’ll live according to my Teaching or not’” (NLT).

I joked at times about identifying with the Israelites in the wilderness as God provided manna and quail for them to eat. But as I experienced God’s providing for my own family, like He did for His children in the Old Testament, I searched for more answers to my everyday problems in the Bible.

Traditions. Before my seminary days, I never thought about asking God to provide for my family’s needs, especially our food. Yes, we taught our children to express their thanks before our meals. But my prayer of thanks usually came after I had purchased groceries and prepared our meals.

So, I examined our mealtime prayers and Thanksgiving blessings. Could they simply be a family or religious tradition? Had I ever offered my mealtime prayers with a heartfelt gratitude for God’s blessings?

Diets. I still struggle with worry and my spiritual focus in the area of food from time to time. Even now, as I try to eat a healthier diet, I realize that I must stop and ask God for direction every day–sometimes moment-by-moment–as I seek answers to my problems and needs in this area of my life.

So, as I prepare to enter into this season of Thanksgiving once again, I pray that I will remember this promise from God’s Word.

“… The Lord is near. Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus” (Phil. 4:5-7 NIV).<

Fear of rejection and failure?

Fear of rejection and failure?

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“Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up” (Thomas A. Edison).

Do you see rejection as failure? Failure often points us toward changes in our direction and priorities.

C. S. Lewis explained, “Failures are finger posts on the road to achievement.”

Finding the courage to risk failure requires us to be vulnerable.

Recently, I shared some of my thoughts on failure and vulnerability on the WordServe Water Cooler.

Click here to read my post on the WordServe Water Cooler.

What lessons have you learned about failure and vulnerability? Leave your comments below. I’d love to hear from you!

Video/TED (Brené Brown: “The Power of Vulnerability”)
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Broken Vessels … Building Legacies

Broken Vessels … Building Legacies

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“We now have this light shining in our hearts, but we ourselves are like fragile clay jars containing this great treasure. This makes it clear that our great power is from God, not from ourselves” (2 Cor. 4:7 NLT).

Sometimes I feel like an empty, broken container with nothing left to offer anyone. Maybe I’ve stretched myself too thin with commitments, I’m exhausted, or I’m faced with physical, emotional, or mental limitations. (more…)

Chasing after God’s Pleasure

Chasing after God’s Pleasure

Photo/KarenJordanWhat can we do for God that will please Him?

I’ve tried to do the things that I thought pleased God, but my good deeds never seemed to be enough when compared to the standards set before me.

When I sought answers to my question about pleasing God, I found some inspiring biblical examples of others who sought God’s approval and blessings.

Today, I’m sharing some of my insights on the WordServe Water Cooler.

Click here to read my post on the WordServe Water Cooler.

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What do you think pleases God? Leave your comments below. I’d love to hear from you!

 

A Question of Authority

A Question of Authority

Photo/KarenJordanHave your fears ever tempted you to run from a challenging opportunity?

As I prepared to walk into my first teaching experience in a college classroom, I felt the weight of my fear.

What if someone questions my authority? Who am I to be teaching college freshmen to write? I’m still a student myself!

Read about how I faced my fear of teaching in my post today in A Common Bond.

Click here to read my post on A Common Bond.

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Has someone ever questioned your authority? What did you do? Leave your comments below. I’d love to hear your story!